Relationships Revival | Geoffrey SetiawanReviews of relationshipsmastered.com

I can honestly say Relationships Revival changed my life from the inside out. My marriage is strong and thriving because I have tools from this program that were able to get it there and have the ability to sustain it that way long-term. Thanks to Geoffrey and his team, I will never be the same in the best way. This program changes your mindset in so many ways. You will never believe the change that can come into your life until you take a chance on this course. Master your mind, transform your entire life!

Before joining Relationship Revival, I was struggling with insecurity, heartbreak, and unhealthy relationship patterns. I had already tried therapy, group therapy, self-help books, and countless hours of online content. While some of those resources helped me understand my problems, I never felt like I had a clear framework for creating lasting change. What stood out about Relationship Revival was how deeply everything was explained. Instead of being told what to do, I finally understood why people think, feel, and behave the way they do. The program combined practical tools, coaching, accountability, and a supportive community in a way that made the lessons stick and translate into real life. The changes in my life have been incredible. I have far more confidence, stronger relationships, a much closer connection with my family, amazing friendships, and a healthy, loving relationship. Most importantly, I feel genuinely happy and fulfilled on a daily basis. I was initially skeptical and worried it might be another program making big promises. Looking back, my only regret is that I didn’t join sooner. For me, it was one of the best investments I’ve ever made in myself.

I paid approximately $4,000 for this program during one of the most emotionally vulnerable periods of my life after a painful breakup involving cheating and betrayal. My experience was extremely negative. Before joining, I had an introductory call where I was spoken down to because I had not watched the pre-call videos. I explained that I was emotionally overwhelmed and trying to determine whether the program was even appropriate for my situation, but instead of feeling supported, I was made to feel inadequate, uncommitted, and responsible for the failure of my relationship before my circumstances were even properly understood. A major issue I had with the program was the repeated idea that when cheating happens, responsibility is essentially 50/50. For someone already hurt, confused, and trying to understand what happened, that framework can be extremely damaging. In my case, it pushed me deeper into self-blame when what I actually needed was balanced support, context, and clarity. Once inside the program, I found the material generic and not worth the cost. The assignments felt more like exercises in self-blame than meaningful relationship analysis. When I tried to complete them, I was told they were not right, but I was not given clear guidance beyond being told to look at other people’s examples. It felt like the program expected everyone to process, learn, and respond in the exact same way, with little room for individual circumstances or different learning styles. I also felt that the program did not meaningfully account for the complexity of my relationship. My situation involved bisexuality/pansexuality, cheating, unclear boundaries, emotional instability, and a relationship structure that was not a simple standard breakup scenario. When I tried to explain those details, I felt dismissed because the program seemed to rely on a one-size-fits-all model. There was also a strong no-refund structure, which made the entire experience feel even more high-pressure once I realized the program was not what I expected. Overall, I walked away feeling worse, not better. I felt blamed, talked down to, and pressured into accepting responsibility for another person’s betrayal in a way that was not healthy for me. I stopped using the program and regret spending the money. I am writing this because I do not want someone else who is heartbroken, vulnerable, and desperate to save a relationship to go through the same experience I did. In my opinion, anyone considering this program should be very cautious, especially if they are already in a fragile emotional state.

I know the guys are all gonna shake their head at me because I took so long to do this, but I can’t begin to tell you with words here how great the whole team is. This program, if you allow it, WILL change your life. No question. There are a ton of programs out there focusing on this and that, giving you statistics and percentages, it’s all crap. The only thing that will determine your success in any program is your willingness to learn, your dedication to working hard and especially in this program, your ability to deliberately do the things you need to do especially the hard things. Trust me here hard was my middle name for a bit. So many of you right now are reading this in the lowest point of your life, whether that is having your marriage being in a spot where things are great, and you are questioning, if you chose the right person, to those of you that are dealing with an affair, to those you who are going through or who had gotten divorced. There is hope for every single one of you. I was you, the love of my life, my person got to a point where she wanted at first space, then no talking and resistance from every angle. Then came the first big bomb of filing for divorce. Then finding out that there had been somebody else for years. Talk about the world that nobody has ever prepared for, but I promise you will smack you right in the mouth before you know it. There is no timeline there are no guarantees. There is only you and the work. I was asked to leave my home in October 2023, I found the program in February 2024 after wasting a bunch of time looking at other programs and my on boarding date was March 1 of 2024 and I was so excited to tell my wife I had been telling her that I had found this program and that I think I see what she’s been upset about and I kept telling her that we can fix this on February 28, 2024. She told me that she had filed for divorce. By that time, and she can attest to this today, when she told me I calmly said OK. I was scared but confident that it did not matter. And I told her that on the phone that night no matter what happens here or what you think is going to happen I will fix this. So we can now fast forward to October 2024 after months of failing and falling on my face with tons of resistance, stonewalling, gaslighting and lying, with also a lot of hard work and an understanding of what Geoffrey and his team are teaching in his program will work if it is done correctly and done deliberately. It is not a matter of if but when she will see that you are operating on a level no other man could compare to. Remember guys she chose you to begin with which means you hold a special place in her heart that nobody else can occupy. Love is not enough I promise. Again, October 24th 2024 exactly one year to the day exactly from when I walked out of my home away from our family, my child with her and most of all her, filled with fear and uncertainty not knowing if that was the last time I would ever get to see her, hug her or be with her again, to standing in my driveway of my home, looking at my wife and her telling me that it was too late and she was so sorry and me telling her that I was so sorry but it was never going to be too late and I told her every single day everything is gonna be OK and I was always going to be here for her. To this day, it still feels like a dream. I even told the team in an email that I have to pinch myself because of the low low lows that I experienced during my separation to where I am today. Just briefly, today WE are happily married still, just had our 15 year wedding anniversary living in the place that she told me at 17 she wanted to be someday, and her pregnant going into the third trimester with a baby boy after 13 years of trying and secondary infertility. Our other child is flourishing more than we could’ve ever hoped for things are just night and day different. No marriage will ever be sunshine and rainbows. Things will be hard. Marriage is one of the hardest things that you could ever choose to do in this life. And I also can tell you that going through life hoping for the best and just assuming that you are doing enough isn’t very well could land you the situation you are in and I found myself in. Getting asked to leave your home facing losing your family. Everything you worked for and staring down divorce is also really f*ckin hard I promise you that! Choose your hard. Be the shore your wife needs you to be. I promise but if you choose to go with G and his team, and you do the work as it is laid out before you can and will escape the nightmare, you are currently living in. I promise it can get better. Thank you again everyone who helped me and my stupid self during this time. I’m so very grateful for this life that I have today. Learning how to learn really is life’s most important skill.

Now I can frequently be present in the moment, understand the people around me instead of revolving in thoughts in my head. Listen instead of judging and have meaningful relationships.

Like many others, I joined Geoffrey's program because my marriage was failing. His youtube videos spoke to me and it made sense, and like many others, I was sure that this would be a quick crash course on quickly becoming a better man and maybe I can save my relationship. What I actually found was this was something that revolutionalized my life far beyond my relationship. The program has a ton of material, endless resources, and neverending support for it's members. What I found even more helpful is that the program starts with teaching you how to learn, and how to think entirely differently about any situation you face, and the lessons I took away from that helped me 10x the benefits I got from the rest of my journey. Ultimately this program has been amazing for my relationship, but even more so in all other areas of my life. I began to see a bunch of successes with my career, my confidence, my mental health, and actually I got those wins even before the wins in my relationship. G and one of my mentors in the program both mentioned that rebuilding your relationship was the minimum bar that you will achieve from the program, and they were right. I am so happy that I've been able to benefit from all these wins outside of the relationship too and see a version of myself I never thought I'd dream of when I started the program! Big thanks to G and everyone in the community for helping me achieve these amazing wins!

I came into the Relationship Revival program at a point in my life where I knew something had to change — not just my marriage, me. I had reached a point where the way I’d been operating for years wasn’t sustainable anymore. I was ready for drastic change, but I had no idea how deep that change needed to go or what “doing the work” actually meant. This program showed me. And it’s been a life‑changer in ways far beyond saving my marriage. What makes this program different is the richness of it — the depth, the support, the materials, the frameworks, the daily guidance, and the way it forces you to look inward instead of chasing the next strategy or surface‑level fix. It didn’t just teach me how to communicate better. It didn’t just help me stay calm in difficult moments. It didn’t just teach me techniques. It taught me how to prepare myself at a deeper level — how to rebuild my internal architecture so that I could actually show up as the man I wanted to be, not the man my old patterns kept pulling me back into. I learned how to: slow down long enough to see my internal patterns break old interpretations that had been running me for years stay in my Seat of Consciousness instead of getting dragged into the old loops build daily practices that raise my baseline and my identity lead with presence, not pressure create safety instead of reacting from fear And the most surprising part? When I changed those internal processes, everything around me changed with it — my marriage, my business, my leadership, my clarity, my level of responsibility, even the way I think. The support inside the program is exactly what I needed. Not cheerleading. Not surface‑level advice. Real guidance. Real accountability. Real frameworks. Real community. People who have walked this path and understand what internal transformation actually requires. At a time in my life when I was ready to make real, drastic changes — this program gave me the structure and the depth to do it. My marriage is healing, yes. But the truth is, the biggest shift has been inside me. This isn’t a marriage program. It’s a human transformation program. And it came at the exact moment I needed it most.

Relationship Revival is a brilliant program that has changed my life in every way. I don’t say that just to say that. When I first entered this program, I was a 23 year old man living in NYC. Simultaneously, I was facing both a CH7 bankruptcy and losing my partner at the time. It was clear the way I was doing things didn’t work, in any avenue of life. What started as a “getting my partner back” program transformed into finding myself. Using the program’s principles and teachings, I have achieved some of the following since: 1) fixed a very broken relationship I’ve had with my father (we’re now in good terms), 2) find out that I had vulnerable narcissism and deep shame about my authentic self… allowing me to break my mask and show up in a healthier and honest way, and 3) use the program’s principles to improve my performance at the workplace. I’ve transformed from being someone who was proud of doing the bare minimum to proactively searching and implementing solutions for my team. I know these are just words; however, RR has made me a better man, a better son, a better thinker, and a better person. Take this from someone who wasted $8,000+ on other programs, this is the one that changed my life. It is comprehensive, it is profound, and it is complex. But, leaning into complexity (as life is complex) is what will bring great success. Thank you so much, Geoferry and team, for showing me a way where I don’t have to keep avoiding the hard things in life. Instead, that challenging conversation, task, worksheet, etc all leads to a beautiful change that makes life better.